You know? I had this whole post about the word celebrity; but it turned out to be a load of waffle; so I decided not to post it. Instead - I just hit the delete button, and started this post. I exercised my choice as a humanitarian :loopy: to save you all from having to read more dross!
In other news, I went and had a hair cut today; from my favourite hairdresser - Ellen! Cute, smart, funny - all the right stuff! If only I was just a couple of years younger, I’d ask her out in a snap! Guess I’m beginning to feel my age after all. My biggest problem with dating is; I like to play it safe all the time, I’m too guarded to take any risks. So - if I come across someone, who I flirt with (because I like them) and they flirt back. I still don’t ask them out; we continue to flirt until eventually it’s just friends… Whilst I am aware of the complexities involved in the whole human mating ritual (I’ve done a little research). I still don’t know (or rather ‘get’) the steps.
I’ve been winging it ever since I left school; I never let myself get close to anyone - not properly, not unconditionally… it’s proving a bit of a distraction of late, and given the change in family dynamics recently, I’ve been given cause to re-evaluate myself. I really need to get a handle on this, otherwise I’m going to continue drifting from one insignificant or doomed relationship to the next. My biggest handicap? I’m just too ‘nice’…
….hmmm, think I’ll pen my letter to Santa for Christmas now….
“Dear Santa, Please can I have a set of balls for Christmas, with a dose of hard-faced guts. Thanks in advance!”
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Awww dude you know im gonna kick your ass on this one.
I wouldn’t be disheartened by it all though. But i do agree with you .. you are going to need to get a grip on this ..other wise its going to get out of control.
Look picking up chicks and getting them to the next level in your case a date, is very simple. You need to stop putting so much weight on it.
I know it may seem difficult because there is the chance of possible rejection, but lets face it, if you never ask her .. then isnt it a no anyways?
You need to stop playing safe and let loose! And know that once you decide to want to be more successful with chicks, that there is plenty of help out there.
But it all starts with you and if you are ready and willing
Hot Alpha Female
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I totally hear ya! and I totally agree…. consider my ass kicked!! …Crikey?? Why should be be feeling so good about that? oooer…
well its coz u got ur ass kicked by an alpha female … quite an expereince huh?!
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